To live a better life, we want to be better, do better, and act better, and when it comes to becoming better, waiting is not easy. But if we focus on the right things and do it the right way, it pays off.
25 Pounds and No Time to Change
Five years ago I was in the best shape of my life. I had just finished presenting a health and wellness seminar and I was living it. I was down to a very lean weight, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly. I seemed unstoppable.
Until I stopped.
Within the next year and a half my weight started to drift. My focus as a speaker changed from health and wellness to corporate presentations, and my weight seemed to change with it. I gained a dozen pounds and it didn’t seem to stop.
I still exercised and ate moderately well, but I was doing the bare minimum. And with all the pressure of other things, the bare minimum was all I could seem to do. Within around three years I reached a peak nearly twenty five pounds above where I was and there seemed to be no time to buckle down.
I decided that I would continue to maintain: to exercise, eat five servings of fruits and vegetables daily, employ a few other food restrictions, but then worry about the rest another day. It’s not that I was giving up on being healthy: it’s that I was focusing on doing the bare minimum to be healthy enough, until I could deal with the more pressing things in my life. Waiting is not easy when you know you aren’t where you want to be, but, with perseverance, it can pay off.
Back on Track
Here I am five and a half years later and I finished last year with my lowest weigh in I’ve had in almost five years. Because I had set things aside for a time, I was able to focus on clearing up other, more pressing issues before circling back. If I could have advised myself back then on anything in this area, I think I probably would have just said that waiting is not easy, but it pays off.
We are all juggling so many things at any given time. It’s next to impossible to keep them all at their optimum and if one falls, it only makes it that much harder to deal with the rest.
That’s why sometimes we have to focus on key things and put everything else in maintenance mode. We don’t give up on them, but we do give them only the basic amount of attention to keep them healthy and nothing more. I definitely wanted to be healthier, but it wasn’t time to give it anything more than the minimum. Sometimes waiting is not easy, but if we keep our focus, it pays off.
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Although I had to put being at my ideal weight on hold, I didn’t give up on it. I just held off on it. I kept believing and always expected to come back to it. I simply put the goal in limbo. In times like that waiting is not easy, but I’m glad it pays off.
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